Wednesday, May 24, 2006
Trip from Cebu to Masbate
Just gotten on board TransAsia. We got 3 aircon and 3 economy accommodations. Junel, Yayes and I enjoyed the comforts of our respective beds while Collins and Henri, who sneaked inside the airconditioned room in the middle of the night, slept on separate benches. Jason endured the heat and smoke upstairs, at the economy section.
by Yayes Basares
Where are you now? What are you doing? Have you heard the trumpet sound?
There is a call for you. It comes from the conviction of one man and is shared by many. Tyrone calls it payback. Having received so much in his life; a good wife, wonderful kids, a fleet of cars and a single engine cesna plane, a palatial house, he wants to give back to others what he has. And his invitation is being extended to you.
MAELSTROM is being organized as a corporation. Its aim in engaging in business alongside profit is to assist others members of the class foremost and charity work later.
The batch is oozing with talents both in the administrative and technical aspect in business and many have the capacity to finance projects. You are being called not only by Tyrone but by the whole batch as well (MAELSTROM VENTURES INC.) to participate, invest and or assist.
With the golden hands of Tyrone, Erwin and Nono in business, their combined expertise MAELSTROM VENTURES INC could go far, the dedication and commitment of the rest of the batch would surely make it a success.
Each and every one of you will receive a formal letter of invitation from Tivo who has been elected as Corporate Secretary. You will have to respond with your intention to join either as investor or industrial partner. Along side this, another group based in Sorsogon is working on the paper for the legal personality of the group while another group is already scouting for the location of our first project/venture in Sorsogon. An office is already prepared courtesy of another batchmate. Sorsogon shall serve as our launching pad inasmuch as it is where Maelstrom was born.
By June 2, 2006 Manila based Maelstrom shall meet with Tyrone. Rino shall coordinate with each of you. In the meeting Tyrone shall fully explain the project to all Maelstrom based in Manila.
By June 17, 2006 the first general meeting to finally kick off the project shall be held in Sorsogon.
We cannot forever spend our lives like kids on a seesaw there is always a time to make decisions. As Tyrone says it, we cannot spend the rest of our lives holding reunions and living the good life for a day or two and in the end faces a blank wall.
There is a call for you. It comes from the conviction of one man and is shared by many. Tyrone calls it payback. Having received so much in his life; a good wife, wonderful kids, a fleet of cars and a single engine cesna plane, a palatial house, he wants to give back to others what he has. And his invitation is being extended to you.
MAELSTROM is being organized as a corporation. Its aim in engaging in business alongside profit is to assist others members of the class foremost and charity work later.
The batch is oozing with talents both in the administrative and technical aspect in business and many have the capacity to finance projects. You are being called not only by Tyrone but by the whole batch as well (MAELSTROM VENTURES INC.) to participate, invest and or assist.
With the golden hands of Tyrone, Erwin and Nono in business, their combined expertise MAELSTROM VENTURES INC could go far, the dedication and commitment of the rest of the batch would surely make it a success.
Each and every one of you will receive a formal letter of invitation from Tivo who has been elected as Corporate Secretary. You will have to respond with your intention to join either as investor or industrial partner. Along side this, another group based in Sorsogon is working on the paper for the legal personality of the group while another group is already scouting for the location of our first project/venture in Sorsogon. An office is already prepared courtesy of another batchmate. Sorsogon shall serve as our launching pad inasmuch as it is where Maelstrom was born.
By June 2, 2006 Manila based Maelstrom shall meet with Tyrone. Rino shall coordinate with each of you. In the meeting Tyrone shall fully explain the project to all Maelstrom based in Manila.
By June 17, 2006 the first general meeting to finally kick off the project shall be held in Sorsogon.
We cannot forever spend our lives like kids on a seesaw there is always a time to make decisions. As Tyrone says it, we cannot spend the rest of our lives holding reunions and living the good life for a day or two and in the end faces a blank wall.
Tuesday, May 23, 2006
Monday, May 15, 2006
ORA STUDE ET LABORA (The pride of every SANO)
by Yayes Basares
During the wake of Nono’s mom, we were able to talk to Mayor Roque Sr. Glad to note the good mayor is still up and trim, vibrant and still as handsome as he was before. He asked us this question?
“So how does it feel being a sano? What if you did not come from OLPS and instead say came from a high profile reputable and distinguished school, would you still feel the same pride you have now of being a sano?”
ORA
Yes our voice were too low to reach the gates of heaven that when God prepared the list of who shall serve Him in the ministry we were thought to be absent, but we prayed. The rituals and doctrines practiced and professed continue to guide us. The daily meditation and weekly benediction taught us reverence, the monthly retreat made us value silence in communion with God, the daily rosary and mass built in us the walls of Troy that many sect tried in vain to penetrate, the confessions and counseling made us realize that the runner has to stumble sometimes necessary to redirect its focus for the long run, and the novena taught us devotion and loyalty.
Yes during the roll call we were absent, but never astray!
STUDE
We were prepared well. The mind honed razor sharp to conquer and did conquer; in arts, education, medicine, public service, law, business, music,….. Success came in varying levels. For some can be measured by well lit mansions, a fleet of cars, a fat bank account, for others none of these but with a feeling of contentment in the company of their own families and/or in the exercise of their professions.
We did not grow up merely as intellectuals, we grew up as educated men. For OLPS taught us not to let academics interfere with our education. Along side the wealth most earned came the values of civility, of compassion for others less fortunate, the selflessness in rendering service, the fair play in personal and business transactions, the fortitude to stand up in every failure.
LABORA
We learned to value work no matter how menial. Inside OLPS we scrub lavatories, polished and mop floors and cut grass. We learned to accept responsibility in a communal spirit. We realized we cannot simply drive down the roads and say to hell with the barbarians killing themselves on the country sides. Many of us today in exalted positions at one time or another perspired, cried and literally drag his body to work.
Yes, Mayor Roque Sr. sir, there is pride in being a SANO. And yes you are correct in saying that the fact that we are SANO tend to put limitations on our acts and ways to conform with the values of OLPS, like children thinking of how our acts and lives would affect family reputation, that we sometimes negate ourselves with the little luxuries and pleasures of life because we are SANO.
And yes mayor, Roque Jr is SANO. He may be more handsome than you now but be assured that such is an improvement of the father.
During the wake of Nono’s mom, we were able to talk to Mayor Roque Sr. Glad to note the good mayor is still up and trim, vibrant and still as handsome as he was before. He asked us this question?
“So how does it feel being a sano? What if you did not come from OLPS and instead say came from a high profile reputable and distinguished school, would you still feel the same pride you have now of being a sano?”
ORA
Yes our voice were too low to reach the gates of heaven that when God prepared the list of who shall serve Him in the ministry we were thought to be absent, but we prayed. The rituals and doctrines practiced and professed continue to guide us. The daily meditation and weekly benediction taught us reverence, the monthly retreat made us value silence in communion with God, the daily rosary and mass built in us the walls of Troy that many sect tried in vain to penetrate, the confessions and counseling made us realize that the runner has to stumble sometimes necessary to redirect its focus for the long run, and the novena taught us devotion and loyalty.
Yes during the roll call we were absent, but never astray!
STUDE
We were prepared well. The mind honed razor sharp to conquer and did conquer; in arts, education, medicine, public service, law, business, music,….. Success came in varying levels. For some can be measured by well lit mansions, a fleet of cars, a fat bank account, for others none of these but with a feeling of contentment in the company of their own families and/or in the exercise of their professions.
We did not grow up merely as intellectuals, we grew up as educated men. For OLPS taught us not to let academics interfere with our education. Along side the wealth most earned came the values of civility, of compassion for others less fortunate, the selflessness in rendering service, the fair play in personal and business transactions, the fortitude to stand up in every failure.
LABORA
We learned to value work no matter how menial. Inside OLPS we scrub lavatories, polished and mop floors and cut grass. We learned to accept responsibility in a communal spirit. We realized we cannot simply drive down the roads and say to hell with the barbarians killing themselves on the country sides. Many of us today in exalted positions at one time or another perspired, cried and literally drag his body to work.
Yes, Mayor Roque Sr. sir, there is pride in being a SANO. And yes you are correct in saying that the fact that we are SANO tend to put limitations on our acts and ways to conform with the values of OLPS, like children thinking of how our acts and lives would affect family reputation, that we sometimes negate ourselves with the little luxuries and pleasures of life because we are SANO.
And yes mayor, Roque Jr is SANO. He may be more handsome than you now but be assured that such is an improvement of the father.
Wednesday, May 10, 2006
Tuesday, May 09, 2006
At Nono's Mom's wake
So 7 of us were able to make it to the wake - Yayes, Jet, Rino, Gabby, Gojie and Jason and Cando. Kit wasn't able to make it coz his travel from Tiaong, Quezon took a bit of time. Wiron, the birthday boy - also didnt make it because of choir practice.
It was fun to see each other again after sometime and despite it being a wake we couldnt help but be boisterous and noisy. We also had a fun time talking with Nono's Dad who shared with us some fine points about politics
thanks to rino and cando pala for the pizza :-)
first pic was taken inside the room. while the second pic was taken outside the main door- with the latest arrival- Jason. Gojie and Gabby left early coz of of work
It was fun to see each other again after sometime and despite it being a wake we couldnt help but be boisterous and noisy. We also had a fun time talking with Nono's Dad who shared with us some fine points about politics
thanks to rino and cando pala for the pizza :-)
first pic was taken inside the room. while the second pic was taken outside the main door- with the latest arrival- Jason. Gojie and Gabby left early coz of of work
Monday, May 08, 2006
Sunday, May 07, 2006
Our heartfelt condolences to Nono
Nono's mom passed away last May 6 in Manila after a brief battle with cancer. Her body now lies at Arlington Funeral Homes in Araneta, Quezon City. It will be taken back to Irosin on Tuesday, May 9. The interment will be on May 14.
Nono, Batch 86 sends our heartfelt condolences to you and your family and prays for your strength in this trying time and for her eternal peace and happiness.
Godspeed Tia Pansay!
Nono, Batch 86 sends our heartfelt condolences to you and your family and prays for your strength in this trying time and for her eternal peace and happiness.
Godspeed Tia Pansay!
Friday, May 05, 2006
REUNION
Yayes Basares
How I hate reunions………. It reminds me of my age. God it has been twenty years already? And here I am still playing hide and seek with myself. It’s a funny game I seek while I hide.
Dateline : Black Saturday April 15, 2006
Meeting place was Tivo’s residence at SPPVS. The venue was chosen to skip the P100.00 registration fee at OLPS. Believe me it was a legal move according to Tivo.
Henri came, always mindful of how chicken pox affected his face yet proud of his having no beer belly. Junie came, the class beadle, the leader, the planner and organizer,,,,,,,the forever bachelor ? ? ? ? Dante came, the class puzzle on how he retains his “single blessedness”. Jason came, bespectacled but still with the hundred meters stare that seems to penetrate your bones when he looks at you. Dave came, still with his warm smile and sparkling eyes. Weewee came, proudly proclaiming himself the prima donna of the class, of course we did not object.
We drunk the whole night. They had Fundador, a Tequila and a white wine. I settled with Tiki-tiki. We laughed the whole night. And yes we reminiscence the past, the crazy kids that we were. We looked back and came up with a unanimous conclusion: Entering OLPS was the greatest event in our lives. Weewee can vouch for that.
OLPS was home to each of us, and all of us. It’s the unbroken tie that united us, kids from different places, different family backgrounds, different values. It remains to binds us, men of different aches, longings and frustrations.
And it will continue to hold us together.
Did I not say I hate reunions? It took me some time to recover and come back to the real world. My four day vacation extended to seven days. The days after, it took me some time to get up from bed and face the real world, that when I returned to my desk my officemates would like to skin me alive. I simply smiled at them like a love struck puppy. When I left Sorsogon I kissed my kids, I kissed my wife, I even wanted to kiss the poker faced bus driver but he said he was busy so I let him be.
It must have been the tiki-tiki.
How I hate reunions………. It reminds me of my age. God it has been twenty years already? And here I am still playing hide and seek with myself. It’s a funny game I seek while I hide.
Dateline : Black Saturday April 15, 2006
Meeting place was Tivo’s residence at SPPVS. The venue was chosen to skip the P100.00 registration fee at OLPS. Believe me it was a legal move according to Tivo.
Henri came, always mindful of how chicken pox affected his face yet proud of his having no beer belly. Junie came, the class beadle, the leader, the planner and organizer,,,,,,,the forever bachelor ? ? ? ? Dante came, the class puzzle on how he retains his “single blessedness”. Jason came, bespectacled but still with the hundred meters stare that seems to penetrate your bones when he looks at you. Dave came, still with his warm smile and sparkling eyes. Weewee came, proudly proclaiming himself the prima donna of the class, of course we did not object.
We drunk the whole night. They had Fundador, a Tequila and a white wine. I settled with Tiki-tiki. We laughed the whole night. And yes we reminiscence the past, the crazy kids that we were. We looked back and came up with a unanimous conclusion: Entering OLPS was the greatest event in our lives. Weewee can vouch for that.
OLPS was home to each of us, and all of us. It’s the unbroken tie that united us, kids from different places, different family backgrounds, different values. It remains to binds us, men of different aches, longings and frustrations.
And it will continue to hold us together.
Did I not say I hate reunions? It took me some time to recover and come back to the real world. My four day vacation extended to seven days. The days after, it took me some time to get up from bed and face the real world, that when I returned to my desk my officemates would like to skin me alive. I simply smiled at them like a love struck puppy. When I left Sorsogon I kissed my kids, I kissed my wife, I even wanted to kiss the poker faced bus driver but he said he was busy so I let him be.
It must have been the tiki-tiki.
Wednesday, May 03, 2006
Update on the Cebu Reunion
mga padi, junie proposes that the arrival in cebu should be on May 19- friday and departure on may 21 - sunday. an gusto daw magpabilin --ok lang daw kay tyrone.
sori mga padi magregrets ako kay medyo busy ako sa office last weeks of may and first 2 weeks of june.
pls. email me re kung join kayo or not or better yet kindly text back na lang kay Junie who is coordinating this activity. mucho tenks mga padi!
Monday, April 24, 2006
Monday, April 10, 2006
Balik OLPS sa Black Sabado!
mga padi, poll ulit kun sino an maka-attend san black sat reunion. email, text me or sa comments niyo na alng ilagay
1. Jason
2. Dante
3. Yayes
4. Erwin
5. Junie
6. Wiron
7. Jet
8. Rene
9. Henri
10.
1. Jason
2. Dante
3. Yayes
4. Erwin
5. Junie
6. Wiron
7. Jet
8. Rene
9. Henri
10.
Friday, April 07, 2006
Batch 86 20th Year Anniversary Reunion sa Cebu
Mga padi, Tyrone, by way of Rino said that their family trip to the US was moved to June instead of May --which means we can push through with the Batch Summer Outing in Cebu on the fourth week of May 2006 as originally planned. Junie can we finalize the date before black sat?
Please sign up here (or via comments) or text me if you can join the outing.
1. Tyrone
2. Rino
3. Jason
4.
Please sign up here (or via comments) or text me if you can join the outing.
1. Tyrone
2. Rino
3. Jason
4.
Friday, March 31, 2006
Speech ni Antonio Meloto
By special request ni Mervs, i'm posting this speech of Tony Meloto - sent in by Rino Coronel
“The Eagle Will Not Fly Without the Poor”
By Antonio P. Meloto, Gawad Kalinga
Ateneo de Manila University Commencement Exercises
25 March 2006
I asked some members of the senior class last week why they chose me as their commencement speaker. I have no business empire. I hold no political power. And I am no academic genius. I am just an ordinary Filipino, a graduate of the Ateneo, who did not even excel as a student… just an ordinary man who loves to tell stories about the extraordinary things that people are doing for our country today.
And they told me--- because I represent a movement that presents hope at this time when many in our country are in despair. You are looking for hope in me, but I am here to tell you that this school and the other members of this university have been a source of hope and inspiration for me in the last three years.
When Father Ben Nebres and the Ateneo Board of Trustees bestowed the Ozanam Award on Gawad Kalinga through me on July 23, 2003, they triggered A REVOLUTION OF HOPE in the Ateneo…sweeping the Ateneo from grade school, high school, college, to the Alumni... then leading the way for other universities, corporations, government institutions and Filipino organizations abroad to follow their example and joining the bandwagon for nation building. The Ateneo is showing the world that “The eagle will not fly without the poor”.
Thank you Father Ben for your great love for our country and for inspiring the young to make a difference in the lives of our people.
Caring for the poor and restoring the dignity of the Filipino in his own country have now become an urgent mission for Filipinos here and abroad. This is not just healing for our country’s poor and neglected but it is healing for me and many like me as well.
Unknown to most of you, for 32 years it wasn’t easy for me to return to Ateneo. I didn’t come to the reunions and homecomings, simply because of a sense of guilt of a person who grew up with the suffering poor but later forgot them after I got an Ateneo education. I was so focused on repackaging, and building up myself that I forgot the accompanying responsibility that came with the privilege of an Ateneo scholarship. I forgot the poor… I left them behind. I left them like so many others before me.
There are many who blame the rich and powerful for the plight of the poor. I know there is basis for the accusations but I cannot bring myself to blame them. How could I expect them to love the poor whom they do not know when I grew up poor and yet forgot to help them, too.
I realized my great shortcoming as a Filipino in 1985 when I joined Couples for Christ. It was then that I found my faith and grew a conscience and decided to live a righteous life… to correct the mistakes and the injustice committed to our country and to our people by people like me. Couples for Christ taught me to repent for my sins and to be genuinely sorry for the things I failed to do for my country and for my people.
I am really sorry for the state of things, because of my failure to do something about it. And many are now sorry, just like myself because of this state of degradation… But feeling sorry is not enough. Sorry does not restore beauty, sorry does not restore dignity, sorry does not restore the plan of God for man. Sorry begins it, but sorry is not enough.
What needs to be done is to bring sorry to action, to convert regret to reform, to lift apathy to compassion and development. We who have not done well by the talents and treasures we have been gifted with, we who have abdicated our responsibility of shepherding the poor and the young to their birthright of enjoying the treasures of a beautiful and abundant country, we who have seen the errors of our ways and are sorry --- we must now restore what we destroyed… or allowed to be destroyed.
Because the Ateneo is a Christian university which believes in the mission of forming students to become persons for others, the principle of good over evil goes beyond the fundamental understanding of right and wrong. It is not enough not to do wrong. To battle evil, we must do good. The path of reform and transformation for Ateneans… for Christians, must be one of peace. It must believe that good is more powerful than evil, and only in the exercise of good can evil be eliminated. Thus, the path of reform and transformation, personal and social, must be a path of good works.
Build homes. Build communities. Build capacities. Restore dignity. Restore abundance. Restore beauty. Restore peace. Build and restore, build and restore.
And you did! The eagle has landed in Payatas. Because you could not bring the poor of Payatas to Ateneo, you brought Ateneo to the poor of Payatas. In this once desolate place, you restored dignity, you have brought back hope!
The former squatters now have security in their land. You transformed 200 shanties -- the slum and the garbage have now become a beautiful middle class community. Crime has virtually disappeared. Former streetchildren are now in school. The idle have been motivated to find employment and are now living productive lives. Nawala ang sindikato sa lupa, sa tubig, at sa ilaw. You have transformed hell into a piece of heaven… all because you cared, you shared and you learned to work together. The grade school worked with their parents, the high school students gave up their parties… the college students gave up their weekends. And the Alumni from all over the world also helped.
I salute and honor the eagles of Payatas, especially Steph Limuaco, former President of the Ateneo Student Council and now full-time worker of Ateneo for Gawad Kalinga, students, parents, the caretaker team from CFC and Mayor Sonny Belmonte who not only paved the way for the poor to own the land in Payatas but also paved the roads.
Again you performed the same miracle in Gabaldon!
The surviving flood victims who were once squatters living in dangerous areas now have their own land in sites that have been cleared as environmentally safe and their own sturdy homes. Now the people are growing their own food and planting trees. Land for the landless, homes for the homeless, food for the hungry… For this I honor Mark Lawrence Cruz, the 300-strong Team Gabaldon and Mayor Mandia. You washed away the mud of despair and brought out the gold in the poor of Gabaldon.
Gabaldon is part of a massive rehabilitation and reconstruction effort called Kalinga Luzon that goes beyond the usual relief operations after the calamity. Malaki ang tulong dito ng 3 Atenista in helping 40,000 survivor families of the Luzon typhoons and floods… Secretary of National Defense and NDCC Chairman Avelino “Nonong” Cruz , Smart-PLDT Chairman Manny Pangilinan and former Agriculture Secretary Cito Lorenzo.
This afternoon I invited the proud leaders of Payatas and Gabaldon, together with the mayors of Cabiao, San Isidro, and Gen. Tinio, Nueva Ecija who have also benefited from the help of Ateneo. They are here to witness the graduation of a new breed of Ateneans and Filipinos who not only have the brains but also the heart for our country and our people.
The journey to rebuild our country is just beginning and moving towards massive upscaling with the entry of corporations, national government agencies, LGU’s and Filipino organizations abroad.
Corporations too are searching for a deeper and better _expression of corporate social responsibility. Rival corporations are rising above business competition to help. P&G and Unilever, Jollibee and McDonalds, Shell and Petron, Pfizer and Wyeth and Smart-PLDT… and over a hundred others. Sabi ng Shell “Kung may layunin, malayo ang inyong mararating”. Sabi ng Smart “We’re not just building homes, we’re building a nation”. Both campaigns are inspired by the spirit of Gawad Kalinga, the spirit of being a person for others – going beyond conventional charity towards helping the poor become better stewards of their families and their communities. Converting our human resource from liability to asset, expanding the market base by empowering the poor make good business sense!
This afternoon we have with us the country chairman of Shell Philippines, Mr. Ed Chua, who is from La Salle and the president of Pfizer, Mr. Gerry Bacarro, who is from Ateneo. Both are firm believers of corporate social responsibility geared towards nation-building. It is our hope that the stiff rivalry between Ateneo and La Salle in basketball will be elevated to a higher level of nobility of building the most number of houses and communities and educating the most number of poor children.
My fellow Ateneans, when you leave this campus, many of you will join these corporations and will be happy to note that they have a keener sense of social responsibility and a work environment that will nurture your idealism.
In the field of governance, more than 300 mayors and governors have chosen the same path of nation-building. Hundreds more will join this year and members of Congress are being inspired to do the same. Many of you will be the future mayors, governors and members of congress… and again will be happy to note that your predecessors have begun the path of building and restoring our country.
Even Filipinos abroad have found a reason to hope and a way to concretize their love for the motherland. Many have gone beyond sending resources… they themselves are coming home to help build the nation of their dreams… Bicolanos helping Bicol… The Ilonggos helping Negros and Panay… the Cebuanos helping Cebu… And the Fil-Am doctors are going beyond the usual medical mission and are building healthy communities as a way of giving back to a country that they have never stopped loving.
When you care for others, especially the weak and the powerless, you will be amazed at how God will take care of you and the people you love. Today I thank God for my wife and my five children who have joined me in this mission to help restore this beautiful land. This is the best legacy I can give them. I honor my son Jay, who at 22, left his job and an exciting life of fast cars and beautiful girls in L.A. to help the typhoon victims of Bicol… and my son-in-law Dylan Wilk who left his country England, his family and friends, his extravagant lifestyle - his Ferrari, his Porsche and BMW… in exchange for the poor families in this country that he has learned to love and care for.
And of course, the nameless and unrecognized workers and heroes of other Ateneo initiatives like Pathways, Tulong Dunong, Jesuit Volunteers of the Philippines, Leaders for Health and other NGOs and cause-oriented groups who love this county… Today there are tens of thousands of them… tomorrow there will be millions. Together we will build a slum-free, squatter-free, crime-free Philippines.
And so in the same spirit of heroism, I urge you young Ateneans to do the same. After you leave this campus, there is no doubt that you will soar to great heights but it will all be meaningless if you fly alone. The poor do not have strong wings like you do and they need you to carry them, inspire them to discover their own strength and greatness. Sana eto ang walang iwanan.
For the parents, as you have invested in the future of your children by giving them the best education possible… support also your children’s desire to invest in the future of this country. They will honor you even more if you value their aspirations for nobility and their dreams for a better country that will be a source of pride for them and their children.
As we go through this defining moment of Philippine history, let us strive never to forget four things:
(1) Never stop hoping for our country.
(2) Don’t stop caring for our people.
(3) Demand greatness of yourself as a Filipino.
(4) Inspire greatness in other Filipinos.
As you leave the campus to join the real world, let your vision and the power that you have discovered to change the world, define what is real to you.
Make your love for this country and our people, especially the poor, your reality and your priority. Make it the foundation of your career plans, your dreams and ambitions for your children and the goal of any political or economic power that you have the privilege to wield.
Wherever you are in the world, excel and prosper but remain connected to the motherland and dedicate your success to the fulfillment not just of your dreams but to the many in your country who have lost their capacity to dream.
Do not be content in finding artificial security in gated subdivisions when you can provide yourself a buffer of peace by caring for the needy around you. Nor be content with living in first world luxury in a third world environment and contributing to the discontent and the growing threats around the security of your own family.
Give value to the land of your birth by sharing with those who for generations have been deprived of its use and abundance. Be a blessing to your children’s future by making it your responsibility to be father or mother to the abandoned and neglected.
Be the healing of the soul of this nation and the fulfillment of the dream that we have forgotten.
Be the proud Filipino that we are not yet, but soon will be.
Be the hero who finds courage and the conviction that this country is worth saving, because it is a gift from God and that your life is meaningless if it is not dedicated to the fulfillment of a divine destiny to be a great people.
Let me end this speech and send you off with a prayer.
Dear God, pour out your blessing upon our new graduates. Guide them in their journey to greatness. Show your power and majesty to this troubled and sinful nation through these young Filipinos who will strive to live lives of righteousness and excellence. Make them healers of our wounded people and restorers of our broken land. Anoint them as the new generation of living heroes who will bring this country to our destiny of greatness.
Mabuhay kayong mga bagong bayani ng bayan! Kayo ang bagong lakas ng pagbabago! Kayo ang magandang mukha ng kinabukasan!
“The Eagle Will Not Fly Without the Poor”
By Antonio P. Meloto, Gawad Kalinga
Ateneo de Manila University Commencement Exercises
25 March 2006
I asked some members of the senior class last week why they chose me as their commencement speaker. I have no business empire. I hold no political power. And I am no academic genius. I am just an ordinary Filipino, a graduate of the Ateneo, who did not even excel as a student… just an ordinary man who loves to tell stories about the extraordinary things that people are doing for our country today.
And they told me--- because I represent a movement that presents hope at this time when many in our country are in despair. You are looking for hope in me, but I am here to tell you that this school and the other members of this university have been a source of hope and inspiration for me in the last three years.
When Father Ben Nebres and the Ateneo Board of Trustees bestowed the Ozanam Award on Gawad Kalinga through me on July 23, 2003, they triggered A REVOLUTION OF HOPE in the Ateneo…sweeping the Ateneo from grade school, high school, college, to the Alumni... then leading the way for other universities, corporations, government institutions and Filipino organizations abroad to follow their example and joining the bandwagon for nation building. The Ateneo is showing the world that “The eagle will not fly without the poor”.
Thank you Father Ben for your great love for our country and for inspiring the young to make a difference in the lives of our people.
Caring for the poor and restoring the dignity of the Filipino in his own country have now become an urgent mission for Filipinos here and abroad. This is not just healing for our country’s poor and neglected but it is healing for me and many like me as well.
Unknown to most of you, for 32 years it wasn’t easy for me to return to Ateneo. I didn’t come to the reunions and homecomings, simply because of a sense of guilt of a person who grew up with the suffering poor but later forgot them after I got an Ateneo education. I was so focused on repackaging, and building up myself that I forgot the accompanying responsibility that came with the privilege of an Ateneo scholarship. I forgot the poor… I left them behind. I left them like so many others before me.
There are many who blame the rich and powerful for the plight of the poor. I know there is basis for the accusations but I cannot bring myself to blame them. How could I expect them to love the poor whom they do not know when I grew up poor and yet forgot to help them, too.
I realized my great shortcoming as a Filipino in 1985 when I joined Couples for Christ. It was then that I found my faith and grew a conscience and decided to live a righteous life… to correct the mistakes and the injustice committed to our country and to our people by people like me. Couples for Christ taught me to repent for my sins and to be genuinely sorry for the things I failed to do for my country and for my people.
I am really sorry for the state of things, because of my failure to do something about it. And many are now sorry, just like myself because of this state of degradation… But feeling sorry is not enough. Sorry does not restore beauty, sorry does not restore dignity, sorry does not restore the plan of God for man. Sorry begins it, but sorry is not enough.
What needs to be done is to bring sorry to action, to convert regret to reform, to lift apathy to compassion and development. We who have not done well by the talents and treasures we have been gifted with, we who have abdicated our responsibility of shepherding the poor and the young to their birthright of enjoying the treasures of a beautiful and abundant country, we who have seen the errors of our ways and are sorry --- we must now restore what we destroyed… or allowed to be destroyed.
Because the Ateneo is a Christian university which believes in the mission of forming students to become persons for others, the principle of good over evil goes beyond the fundamental understanding of right and wrong. It is not enough not to do wrong. To battle evil, we must do good. The path of reform and transformation for Ateneans… for Christians, must be one of peace. It must believe that good is more powerful than evil, and only in the exercise of good can evil be eliminated. Thus, the path of reform and transformation, personal and social, must be a path of good works.
Build homes. Build communities. Build capacities. Restore dignity. Restore abundance. Restore beauty. Restore peace. Build and restore, build and restore.
And you did! The eagle has landed in Payatas. Because you could not bring the poor of Payatas to Ateneo, you brought Ateneo to the poor of Payatas. In this once desolate place, you restored dignity, you have brought back hope!
The former squatters now have security in their land. You transformed 200 shanties -- the slum and the garbage have now become a beautiful middle class community. Crime has virtually disappeared. Former streetchildren are now in school. The idle have been motivated to find employment and are now living productive lives. Nawala ang sindikato sa lupa, sa tubig, at sa ilaw. You have transformed hell into a piece of heaven… all because you cared, you shared and you learned to work together. The grade school worked with their parents, the high school students gave up their parties… the college students gave up their weekends. And the Alumni from all over the world also helped.
I salute and honor the eagles of Payatas, especially Steph Limuaco, former President of the Ateneo Student Council and now full-time worker of Ateneo for Gawad Kalinga, students, parents, the caretaker team from CFC and Mayor Sonny Belmonte who not only paved the way for the poor to own the land in Payatas but also paved the roads.
Again you performed the same miracle in Gabaldon!
The surviving flood victims who were once squatters living in dangerous areas now have their own land in sites that have been cleared as environmentally safe and their own sturdy homes. Now the people are growing their own food and planting trees. Land for the landless, homes for the homeless, food for the hungry… For this I honor Mark Lawrence Cruz, the 300-strong Team Gabaldon and Mayor Mandia. You washed away the mud of despair and brought out the gold in the poor of Gabaldon.
Gabaldon is part of a massive rehabilitation and reconstruction effort called Kalinga Luzon that goes beyond the usual relief operations after the calamity. Malaki ang tulong dito ng 3 Atenista in helping 40,000 survivor families of the Luzon typhoons and floods… Secretary of National Defense and NDCC Chairman Avelino “Nonong” Cruz , Smart-PLDT Chairman Manny Pangilinan and former Agriculture Secretary Cito Lorenzo.
This afternoon I invited the proud leaders of Payatas and Gabaldon, together with the mayors of Cabiao, San Isidro, and Gen. Tinio, Nueva Ecija who have also benefited from the help of Ateneo. They are here to witness the graduation of a new breed of Ateneans and Filipinos who not only have the brains but also the heart for our country and our people.
The journey to rebuild our country is just beginning and moving towards massive upscaling with the entry of corporations, national government agencies, LGU’s and Filipino organizations abroad.
Corporations too are searching for a deeper and better _expression of corporate social responsibility. Rival corporations are rising above business competition to help. P&G and Unilever, Jollibee and McDonalds, Shell and Petron, Pfizer and Wyeth and Smart-PLDT… and over a hundred others. Sabi ng Shell “Kung may layunin, malayo ang inyong mararating”. Sabi ng Smart “We’re not just building homes, we’re building a nation”. Both campaigns are inspired by the spirit of Gawad Kalinga, the spirit of being a person for others – going beyond conventional charity towards helping the poor become better stewards of their families and their communities. Converting our human resource from liability to asset, expanding the market base by empowering the poor make good business sense!
This afternoon we have with us the country chairman of Shell Philippines, Mr. Ed Chua, who is from La Salle and the president of Pfizer, Mr. Gerry Bacarro, who is from Ateneo. Both are firm believers of corporate social responsibility geared towards nation-building. It is our hope that the stiff rivalry between Ateneo and La Salle in basketball will be elevated to a higher level of nobility of building the most number of houses and communities and educating the most number of poor children.
My fellow Ateneans, when you leave this campus, many of you will join these corporations and will be happy to note that they have a keener sense of social responsibility and a work environment that will nurture your idealism.
In the field of governance, more than 300 mayors and governors have chosen the same path of nation-building. Hundreds more will join this year and members of Congress are being inspired to do the same. Many of you will be the future mayors, governors and members of congress… and again will be happy to note that your predecessors have begun the path of building and restoring our country.
Even Filipinos abroad have found a reason to hope and a way to concretize their love for the motherland. Many have gone beyond sending resources… they themselves are coming home to help build the nation of their dreams… Bicolanos helping Bicol… The Ilonggos helping Negros and Panay… the Cebuanos helping Cebu… And the Fil-Am doctors are going beyond the usual medical mission and are building healthy communities as a way of giving back to a country that they have never stopped loving.
When you care for others, especially the weak and the powerless, you will be amazed at how God will take care of you and the people you love. Today I thank God for my wife and my five children who have joined me in this mission to help restore this beautiful land. This is the best legacy I can give them. I honor my son Jay, who at 22, left his job and an exciting life of fast cars and beautiful girls in L.A. to help the typhoon victims of Bicol… and my son-in-law Dylan Wilk who left his country England, his family and friends, his extravagant lifestyle - his Ferrari, his Porsche and BMW… in exchange for the poor families in this country that he has learned to love and care for.
And of course, the nameless and unrecognized workers and heroes of other Ateneo initiatives like Pathways, Tulong Dunong, Jesuit Volunteers of the Philippines, Leaders for Health and other NGOs and cause-oriented groups who love this county… Today there are tens of thousands of them… tomorrow there will be millions. Together we will build a slum-free, squatter-free, crime-free Philippines.
And so in the same spirit of heroism, I urge you young Ateneans to do the same. After you leave this campus, there is no doubt that you will soar to great heights but it will all be meaningless if you fly alone. The poor do not have strong wings like you do and they need you to carry them, inspire them to discover their own strength and greatness. Sana eto ang walang iwanan.
For the parents, as you have invested in the future of your children by giving them the best education possible… support also your children’s desire to invest in the future of this country. They will honor you even more if you value their aspirations for nobility and their dreams for a better country that will be a source of pride for them and their children.
As we go through this defining moment of Philippine history, let us strive never to forget four things:
(1) Never stop hoping for our country.
(2) Don’t stop caring for our people.
(3) Demand greatness of yourself as a Filipino.
(4) Inspire greatness in other Filipinos.
As you leave the campus to join the real world, let your vision and the power that you have discovered to change the world, define what is real to you.
Make your love for this country and our people, especially the poor, your reality and your priority. Make it the foundation of your career plans, your dreams and ambitions for your children and the goal of any political or economic power that you have the privilege to wield.
Wherever you are in the world, excel and prosper but remain connected to the motherland and dedicate your success to the fulfillment not just of your dreams but to the many in your country who have lost their capacity to dream.
Do not be content in finding artificial security in gated subdivisions when you can provide yourself a buffer of peace by caring for the needy around you. Nor be content with living in first world luxury in a third world environment and contributing to the discontent and the growing threats around the security of your own family.
Give value to the land of your birth by sharing with those who for generations have been deprived of its use and abundance. Be a blessing to your children’s future by making it your responsibility to be father or mother to the abandoned and neglected.
Be the healing of the soul of this nation and the fulfillment of the dream that we have forgotten.
Be the proud Filipino that we are not yet, but soon will be.
Be the hero who finds courage and the conviction that this country is worth saving, because it is a gift from God and that your life is meaningless if it is not dedicated to the fulfillment of a divine destiny to be a great people.
Let me end this speech and send you off with a prayer.
Dear God, pour out your blessing upon our new graduates. Guide them in their journey to greatness. Show your power and majesty to this troubled and sinful nation through these young Filipinos who will strive to live lives of righteousness and excellence. Make them healers of our wounded people and restorers of our broken land. Anoint them as the new generation of living heroes who will bring this country to our destiny of greatness.
Mabuhay kayong mga bagong bayani ng bayan! Kayo ang bagong lakas ng pagbabago! Kayo ang magandang mukha ng kinabukasan!
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Tuesday, February 28, 2006
Happy Birthday Jason!
diin an sibog padi? :-)
Click here to send Jason a birthday card! his email addy is jacebalbedina @yahoo.c om
Click here to send Jason a birthday card! his email addy is jacebalbedina @yahoo.c om
Friday, February 17, 2006
Junie's February 9 B-Day Celebration
We had a wonderful birthday celebration on February 9, 2006 at our residence. Thanks to everyone.
First to arrive was Fr. Peewee (in the company of two angels). He showed up at 3:00 pm to pick us up for a visit to Chinabank in Sorsogon City to withdraw the money for the fabrication of one stained glass. After the withdrawal, we dropped by the Bulwagang Pangkatarungan to personally invite Dante who seemed to have forgotten to respond to our text messages. He promised to join us after office hours.
We then proceeded home for Merienda.
Fr. Peewee left around 5 pm for a 6-pm mass in Bulan.
Around 30 minutes after Fr. Peewee had left, Henri's group arrived. He also had two angels with him. (At this point, my father wondered to my mom why my classmates seemed to be coming in the company of two girls/women each! For my part, i was already getting excited for the arrival of Dante. How many are coming with him? Ha ha ha.) After the meal, Henri's companions left.
Before 7 pm, Erwin, Dave and Rene arrived and were dismayed to know that Fr. Peewee had not waited for them to arrive. Madayaon kuno an Padi. Anyway, even without Fr. Peewee and Dante (who texted that he could no longer join us to attend to his ailing father) we had great fun.
Makangangalas ini na mga kaklase ta. Habo mag-irinum. Sige mi lang an iristoryahan. At 10 pm, we called it a "birth"day and they left.
First to arrive was Fr. Peewee (in the company of two angels). He showed up at 3:00 pm to pick us up for a visit to Chinabank in Sorsogon City to withdraw the money for the fabrication of one stained glass. After the withdrawal, we dropped by the Bulwagang Pangkatarungan to personally invite Dante who seemed to have forgotten to respond to our text messages. He promised to join us after office hours.
We then proceeded home for Merienda.
Fr. Peewee left around 5 pm for a 6-pm mass in Bulan.
Around 30 minutes after Fr. Peewee had left, Henri's group arrived. He also had two angels with him. (At this point, my father wondered to my mom why my classmates seemed to be coming in the company of two girls/women each! For my part, i was already getting excited for the arrival of Dante. How many are coming with him? Ha ha ha.) After the meal, Henri's companions left.
Before 7 pm, Erwin, Dave and Rene arrived and were dismayed to know that Fr. Peewee had not waited for them to arrive. Madayaon kuno an Padi. Anyway, even without Fr. Peewee and Dante (who texted that he could no longer join us to attend to his ailing father) we had great fun.
Makangangalas ini na mga kaklase ta. Habo mag-irinum. Sige mi lang an iristoryahan. At 10 pm, we called it a "birth"day and they left.
Tuesday, February 14, 2006
Happy Birthday Gabby!
padi naghu
hulat-hulat lang kami san handa mo :-)
Click here to send Gabby a birthday card! his email addy is g lagamayo@yahoo.co m
hulat-hulat lang kami san handa mo :-)
Click here to send Gabby a birthday card! his email addy is g lagamayo@yahoo.co m
Monday, February 13, 2006
Happy Birthday Mervs!
Anong handa mo mervs?
Click here to send Mervs a birthday card! his email addy is m ervin.hael@rrd.co m
Click here to send Mervs a birthday card! his email addy is m ervin.hael@rrd.co m
Thursday, February 09, 2006
Happy Birthday Junie!
happy birthday junie! kelan an irinuman?
Click here to send Junie a birthday card! his email addy is fauscon@yahoo.com
Click here to send Junie a birthday card! his email addy is fauscon@yahoo.com
Monday, February 06, 2006
FR. PEEWEE'S 8TH ORDINATION ANNIVERSARY, FEBRUARY 5, 2006
Last Wednesday I texted Fr. Peewee to tell him about our batch's donation for the renovation of the church in Butag not knowing that in a few days' time he'd be celebrating his 8th ordination anniversary. In his response, he included an invitation for our class to visit him on this anniversary. So i started texting our classmates who are based in Sorsogon. Unfortunately, most of them couldn't make it, except for Dave who also backed out at the eleventh hour to attend to his "expectant sow".
Fortunately, Henri showed up in our house in the morning of February 5 so i dragged him along to Butag. When we reached Butag around 1:30 pm, Fr. Peewee and his family (sira Sir Ipe tabi nan Ma'm Reno. Lain asawa nan batit ni Fr. Peewee. He he he.) had already left for San Benon.
But Henri and I were pleasantly surprised to see how big the improvement has been in the renovation of the church since our visit in October 2005. See for yourselves in the pictures below. Matibayon an kaklase ta. Makaskason an trabaho sa simbahan.
Kudos to Fr. Peewee!
Our donation will be installed on one of the side windows.
Naglanat kami sa San Benon.
Pag-abot mi, hinakbot tulos ni Henri an Sweet and Sour na isda.
Still very strong and healthy si Ma'm Reno.
Fortunately, Henri showed up in our house in the morning of February 5 so i dragged him along to Butag. When we reached Butag around 1:30 pm, Fr. Peewee and his family (sira Sir Ipe tabi nan Ma'm Reno. Lain asawa nan batit ni Fr. Peewee. He he he.) had already left for San Benon.
But Henri and I were pleasantly surprised to see how big the improvement has been in the renovation of the church since our visit in October 2005. See for yourselves in the pictures below. Matibayon an kaklase ta. Makaskason an trabaho sa simbahan.
Kudos to Fr. Peewee!
Our donation will be installed on one of the side windows.
Naglanat kami sa San Benon.
Pag-abot mi, hinakbot tulos ni Henri an Sweet and Sour na isda.
Still very strong and healthy si Ma'm Reno.
Monday, January 23, 2006
Thursday, January 19, 2006
Kitakits sa Sunday - Jan 22
mga padi, pwede kamo sa isang dinner meeting sa sunday, jan. 22? star of the show si moonvale, our long lost batchmate. wala pa venue so if u have suggestions pls. text rino.
agenda will be post xmas and new year celebrations, 2006 calendar of acitivities and 20th anniversary summer outing
Tyrone will fly down from cebu for this "special" occasion. Also specal request daw po pala for the following; Yayes, Franz, Moonvale, BJ, Dino, Mervs and the Bikol delegation.
pls. textback to rino for confirmation
agenda will be post xmas and new year celebrations, 2006 calendar of acitivities and 20th anniversary summer outing
Tyrone will fly down from cebu for this "special" occasion. Also specal request daw po pala for the following; Yayes, Franz, Moonvale, BJ, Dino, Mervs and the Bikol delegation.
pls. textback to rino for confirmation
Tuesday, January 17, 2006
Music goodness from a guitar god
jerry c is definitely my guitar god. i'm just completely amazed by his guitar playing skills. mad skillz man!!!! talagang my jaw drops seeing and hearing him play. i love his electric rock version of Canon in D by Johann Pachelbel. hanep sa alright talaga!!! nakakaalis lungkot hehehe :-)
also check out his wedding in the dream and rock on
also check out his wedding in the dream and rock on
Friday, January 13, 2006
Fun stuff
its been boring here lately. heto pampasaya - two chinese college students having fun with the backstreet boys
btw, this plays better if you are on fast internet connection- dsl or cable.
btw, this plays better if you are on fast internet connection- dsl or cable.
Saturday, December 24, 2005
Jet in Hongkong
at the hongkong disneyland. we got in free by the way courtesy of a filipino friend ;-) there's lots of pinoy workers there. we werent able to explore the whole park coz there were so many people - from mainland china and the Philippine SEA Games gold medalist were there too - with mike arroyo no less and - there were so many things to do
we dont like rides so we catched the shows and the favo hands down was the philharmonic show - a kind of 3d animation show where not only can you see the movie in 3d with surround sound, you can actually smell the food shown on the screen and they even had water spraying us when during a water splashing scene as in real water that got us a bit wet. it was just simply amazing.
me during one of the anti-wto rally. it was actually festive and peaceful. far from the violent or rowdy event bannered by the hysterical media. it was i think boring for the media so they had to hyped things up a bit. Hongkong people were nice and tolerant and also the police. one of the famous chants during the rallies was in fact "we love hongkong, we love hongkong police" . the police were really nice and helpful it was a bit unnerving
see the shirt? maelstrom ina :p at the hongkong airport going home.
Saturday, December 03, 2005
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